Tag: Leadership
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中庸 (Balance) in Golf and Life
The idea of 中庸 — balance — shows up everywhere once you start looking for it. In golf, in parenting, in business, even in the way we carry ourselves day to day. Golf: Between Reckless and Fearful On the course, extremes rarely work. Swinging with full aggression often leads to disaster. Playing too cautiously can…
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The Gift That Matters: Planting A Seed For Our Future Together
In my line of work, I rarely shop for clothes or accessories because vendors sponsor most of what I wear. Outfits, golf gear, even small items — they’re often covered through sponsorships. So when my wife asks what I want, I usually tell her honestly, “I don’t need anything.” But she still enjoys buying me…
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Thank You, Josh Coad – My Golf Business Mentor
I got a phone call recently from Josh Coad. He said he’d been reading my blog. I paused for a second—honestly, I was surprised. Not because I didn’t think he’d care. But because the man who helped shape how I lead was now reading the thoughts I’ve been putting out into the world. It brought…
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What I’ve Built So Far (90 days)
Over these three months, I’ve written and organized more than a hundred posts.Golf lessons. Food stories. Leadership reflections.Even a few experiments with AI and creativity. Each post started as a small note or idea — something that made me pause, something worth remembering.And somehow, piece by piece, those notes turned into a system. Now I…
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Sharpening a Knife, Sharpening Yourself
The first lesson I ever learned in a professional kitchen wasn’t about flavor. It was about edges. Every good cook knows you can’t do much with a dull knife. Cuts get sloppy. Work gets harder. And sooner or later, the knife slips. That slip isn’t just frustrating — it’s a hazard. You’re more likely to…
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When You Inherit Someone Else’s Baggage
One of the harder parts of leadership is realizing that sometimes, when someone gets upset at you, it’s not really about you. Not long ago, I had a situation with one of our department managers. Earlier this year, he signed a new offer letter with a quarterly bonus tied to the net profit of his…
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About MyJLStory: Golf, Food, and Life Connected
When people ask me what MyJLStory is about, the easiest answer is this: it’s a collection of the lessons and stories that shaped me. From my years grinding on the mini-tours, to the kitchens where I first learned to cook, to the golf clubs and businesses I’ve managed along the way — this blog is…
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When the Customer Isn’t Right: A Leadership Lesson in Backing Your Team
In golf and in business, there’s a moment every leader faces — when the easy choice and the right choice aren’t the same. The easy choice is to bow to the pressure of “the customer is always right.” The right choice is to stand with your team when they’ve done their job with integrity. Last…
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A Different Kind of Leadership Moment
Trust, gratitude, and a team that showed up when it mattered most What Happened This past weekend, we faced one of those situations you don’t see coming. A serious septic backup disrupted the clubhouse. Twice.Once on Saturday, again on Sunday, right in the middle of peak traffic. Dining rooms were full.Events were in motion.Stress was…
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Teaching Golf… and the Business of Golf
Before the season began, Kevin and I sat down to talk about his year ahead as a teaching professional. I laid out my plan for the season: I told him, “Treat these clinics as a way to introduce yourself to our golfers. Earn their trust, show your skills, and your reputation will grow. The money…