Tag: Life Lessons
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Afraid to Lose vs Love to Win
My wife and I have been having the same debate since our son was three years old. She sees his talent, the way he moves, the way he swings a golf club, and believes he has what it takes to become a professional golfer. I see the talent too. But after playing mini tours, coaching…
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Love and Passion: The Fire That Makes Hard Days Feel Light
Jou, Leia, and I often have this discussion. They see me wake up before the sun and come home after dark. Thirteen-hour days are normal for me. They ask me if I am tired. I tell them the truth. Was I tired? Yes.Was it hard? No.Did I have a good time? Yes. The difference is…
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The Principles I Live By and Where I Found Them
There are a few things I have learned along the way. They did not come from classrooms or degrees. Most of them came from people I met, books I read, or quiet moments where something simple opened my eyes. These principles have stayed with me, guiding how I see relationships, family, and life itself. Principle…
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The Hardest Lesson for a Manager: What You Hear Isn’t Always What Was Said
Not long ago, I was told by upper management that two of my staff were not happy. The message was that they felt I should help out more on the restaurant side, bussing tables and serving customers. That hit me hard. Because I do roll up my sleeves. In April and May, I cooked in…
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中庸 (Balance) in Golf and Life
The idea of 中庸 — balance — shows up everywhere once you start looking for it. In golf, in parenting, in business, even in the way we carry ourselves day to day. Golf: Between Reckless and Fearful On the course, extremes rarely work. Swinging with full aggression often leads to disaster. Playing too cautiously can…
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中庸 (Balance) in Nutrition and Life Stages
The older I get, the more I see how needs change. What worked for me at one stage of life doesn’t always work now. And the same is true for food. That’s where the idea of 中庸 — balance — comes in. Kids: Building Blocks When I look at my kids, their bodies are in…
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The Gift That Matters: Planting A Seed For Our Future Together
In my line of work, I rarely shop for clothes or accessories because vendors sponsor most of what I wear. Outfits, golf gear, even small items — they’re often covered through sponsorships. So when my wife asks what I want, I usually tell her honestly, “I don’t need anything.” But she still enjoys buying me…
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好運 (Luck) Is a Skill We Can Learn
Golf has taught me a lot about luck. For years, when I hit a slice off the tee, my first reaction was always the same: anger. I’d chew myself out, replay the mistake in my head, and start tinkering with my swing before I even reached the ball. By the time I stood over my…
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Thank You, Josh Coad – My Golf Business Mentor
I got a phone call recently from Josh Coad. He said he’d been reading my blog. I paused for a second—honestly, I was surprised. Not because I didn’t think he’d care. But because the man who helped shape how I lead was now reading the thoughts I’ve been putting out into the world. It brought…
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A Charity Outing at Sugarbush: Why Local Giving Matters
Today we hosted a charity outing at Sugarbush Golf Club. On paper, it was a tournament — tee times, scorecards, and prizes. But when you see the community gather for a cause bigger than the game, you realize a golf course is more than fairways and greens. It’s a place where giving happens. Learning From…